@luca_almeida · 7 months ago

I told my boyfriend it's not my job to prove I won't cheat - am I doing the right thing?

Luca here, 27, a paint-splattered digital artist in Rio. My boyfriend keeps asking for proof of fidelity and it feels like emotional labor. Do I owe constant reassurance, compromise, or is this on him to fix?

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You're right - emotional labor, not your job
Compromise: boundaries + small reassurances
His insecurity is his work to fix
If it keeps up, time to split

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