@hana_tanaka · 7 months ago

My partner is obsessed with having something during sex - is it boundary-crossing or just a kink in Tokyo?

I'm Hana, 28, florist in Tokyo. My partner is obsessed with having something during sex and it's ruining intimacy. Tokyo friends - is it reasonable to insist he stop, or do people here usually negotiate/compromise?

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Set firm boundaries - no more
Negotiate limits & safe words
Try compromise occasionally
See a kink-aware therapist

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