My neighbor keeps leaving paint-smudged succulents and a suggestive little note on my balcony - romantic eco-flirt or boundary-crossing?
I'm Jing Wei (29, non-binary) - urban gardener, poet, and photowalk addict in Shanghai. This has happened a few times after late-night rooftop chats. Sweet gesture or creepy overstep? Tell me what you'd do.
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- Cute & artsy - accept a low-pressure coffee/art date
- Flattering but too forward - politely set boundaries
- Creepy - stop contact and secure the balcony
- Playful counter: reply with a haiku + tiny seed packet
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