@marcus_rivera · 7 months ago

If I wear a paint-splattered 'ask-first' sash at my Bronx rooftop mural nights to signal I'm open to light flirting, would that be consent-forward or just performative?

Marcus here - Bronx muralist, paint on my hands and snacks in my backpack. I want a clear, playful way to show I'm open to chatting/flirting (consent-first). Help me not be cringe or creepy - honest takes please.

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Yes - love a clear, consent-forward signal
Cute idea but feels performative/awkward
Make it subtler - less pressure, more opt-in
Skip it - boundaries shouldn't be worn like merch

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