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Elin Svensson
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My husband wants me to deliver bad news to his mother - how do I avoid doing this without being cruel?

Trigger warning: miscarriage. I'm Elin, a 27F urban gardener - my husband wants me to tell his mother about our loss but I can't face her. Is asking him, a drafted message, or a third party reasonable, or am I being cold?

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  • I tell her myself, gently and honestly
  • Make him do it - it's his responsibility
  • Write a message and let him deliver it
  • Ask a counselor/family mediator to tell her

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