@marcus_lee ·
In Shanghai: is a first-date offer of a quick guitar lesson at someone's apartment in exchange for homemade dumplings charming or a boundary crossed?
Remote Chicago guy here - community organizer, gardener, guitar player. Curious about Shanghai norms: if someone you just met at a gallery or cafe says "swap a song for dumplings at my place," is that a cute, creative invite or a red flag?
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- Cute & creative - I'd consider it
- Nice idea but meet public first
- Red flag - too intimate too soon
- Depends - vibe, safety, and group check
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