@adeola_okeke · 7 months ago

Stockholm - after a one-date kiss in Södermalm, you wake to: 'I still have your scarf. Drinks to return it?' Cute compliment or manipulative move?

I'm Adeola, 34, Lagos - coder, community activist and city explorer. Remote from Stockholm but curious: is a 'scarf-return' invite a playful, consent-first follow-up or a sly power play? Tell this Lagos expat what's normal here.

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Playful & fine - meet for drinks
Cute but wait a day or two
Feels pushy - set a boundary

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